my happy babywearing journey

Salam and hi,

My baby born on 20.11.2012 via cesarean section (czer./ c-section) at Hospital Batu Pahat.... Pandang2 muka baby jer, terus fall in love.... betul la org kata cinta pandang pertama ni wujud tau....

ok, entry ni cuma nak ceritakan pasal babywearing jer... nanti2 kita cerita pasal birth and warded, also breastfeeding experience yg quite err colourfull ni :p.

i love babywear my baby... especially sbb rasa dia dekat je ngn kita... i love hugging and kissing him... muah.... hehehe, especially bila dia bangun tido... asik weh.... ada elixir kot....

mula2 nak bli yg murah la, sbb tak larat nak dukung.... hehe, mak nye czer, anak nye semangat (nikmat/rahmat org arab panggil), so cari la carrier... at 1st mmg carry paking kain batik, tp baby mengamuk... maybe:
1) tak reti
2) posisi salah
3) panas

So g la mall, nak cari carrier.... bli yg sling, tp susahye nak pakai... plus mcm tak selamat sgt pasal ring dia plastik jer..... then yg ada carrier cm beg2 pakai kat badan tu semuanye narrow base carrier.... oh, kenapa yg narrow/ crotch carrier no tak berapa elok?

see here...... mana satu yg selesa?

social.kidspot.com.au -

then, according to xpert (iyo la tu, hehehe) 

www.tyckledtales.com 

Sling pun ada yg ok dan tak... 

ecochildsplay.com

masa tu tekad bli online je. payah sgt nak cari.... beli la Soft scructure carrier (ssc) Jumpsac Orbit ni kat sini. Ssc ni ada banyak jenis.. ready made local, obersee, and custom made... pilih jer. 

dah try orbit jumpsac, stork snuggbaby, manduca. i prefer stork sbnrnye... hehe, tp hubby tak bg bli lagi.

masa 1st time pakai my baby ni 3mo. pakai masa g pasar kat bagan nak bli ikan... hhehehe. then kena 'racun' dgn senior2 dlm group Malaysian Babywearers dan Babywearing Mamas dlm fb try la wrap pulak.... amazingly wrap lebuh selesa... my boy pun suka wrap ni dari ssc. tp yg leceh nye nak kuar msk wrap ni... kalau ssc copat jer...

my 1st wrap bli yg murah jer sbb nak test dulu... bli khy-wrap. actually ni stretchy wrap mimic boba wrap or sleeping wrap... untuk baby yg kecik sesuai la... bila baby dh berat memang tak selesa....

the, bli lak woven wrap... lagi best... syok wo... tak caya? my baby pun suka tau sampai tido2 dlm wrap... bila tak pakai dia amik cium2 wrap tu... mmg letak dlm keta unt selimut baby masa duk kat carseat... sonang dia tido...

gambar ni masa g jln2 aritu... nampak drag ke bawah sikit mummy baru lepas g mkn. malas nak buka wrap so, makan sambil baby duk dlm wrap... bangun2 je trus baba dia snap gambar... hehehe. sbb tu nampak wrap tak kemas....

 

ini wrap lenny lamb... wrap woven 1st... tp now dah ada lagi 1. hehe. bli pfau lak... ingat nak tambah koleksi lagi tp nanti2 lah.... takde budget la pulak..... hehehheeh

syok tau berbabywearing ni.... sonang... mummy pun tak letih tgn... senang bila shopping sorg, nak pegang barang, nak dukung baby lagi.... nak mkn pun sonang....

k lah, nanti kita cerita lagi.... babai

To Do or Not To Do: the dilemma of Vaccination

Salam Ramadhan,

Since topik ni tengah hangat diperkatakan sekarang ni, maka blog yg bersawang ni sekali lagi di terjah... hehehe. 

Well sebelum baca tu, anda di minta buka minda. Dr Kirk said:
"I heard a story the other day about how a psychiatrist was working with a man that thought he was a corpse.  He wasn't making any break through.  One day the doc had a bright idea. 
He asked his patient if corpses bleed.  The gentleman replied with, “no, they are dead, living people bleed.”  So the psychiatrist took the guys finger and jabbed it with a needle and the patient’s finger started to bleed.  The patient gazed at the blood trickling down his finger in awe.  The psychiatrist thought he has a breakthrough.

The psychiatrist asks the patient, “What have you learned?”  The patient looks at him with excitement and says, “I guess corpses bleed after all.”

The point of the story is that it is going to be very difficult to change someone’s mind when it comes to something they believe."

No, no... i'm not trying to change your mind. i just would like you to understand why some of them choose not to vaccinate.... Kdg2 sedih sbb kata2 yg dilemparkan oleh 2-2 pihak... 

If you want to convince me to vaccinate, please support with info, journal, research, fact to make me understand to trust it... Not personal attack or scare tactic. 

And if you want me to believed that vaccine is harmful, then provide the evidence, info, research too...

I am not a pro vacc or anti vacc person. I just support pro choice. Meaning saya menyokong ibu bapa diberi pilihan untuk memilih yg terbaik (pada hemat mereka) untuk diri mereka dan anak2 nya.... Since i'm a mother (a newbee too), banyak bnda nak kena belajar atau refresh or revesion balik... huhhhu. Being a mother is not easy.... But a meaningful happy journey (for me...)

Rentetan entry vaksin dr Dr Harlina, which i think very entertaining, and quite easy to understand, saya terpanggil untuk mengajak anda sama2 mambacanya.... TAPI, jgn baca tu saja, baca sekali komen2 kat bawah tu which i think worth your time.....

http://barelysupermommy.com/2013/07/11/vaccinations/#comment-10505

Against Vaccination articles:

http://healthimpactnews.com/2013/dr-kurt-why-i-will-never-choose-to-vaccinate-my-own-son-and-any-future-kids-my-wife-and-i-have/

http://www.drkurtperkins.com/2012/05/my-crystal-clear-stance-on-vaccines.html

http://drlwilson.com/Articles/VACCINES.08.htm

Another link yg ada kat situ yg bermanafaat:
Kandungan vaksin:
http://www.informedchoice.info/cocktail.html

Hoe KKM trace and vaccine procedure:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=417139891735143&set=a.416534171795715.1073741826.416476451801487&type=1&theater#!/notes/vaccine-good-and-ugly-bits/rekod-vaksin-klinik-kesihatan/425692314213234

Regarding Thiomersal/ mercury inside vaccine:
http://www.ncirs.edu.au/immunisation/fact-sheets/thiomersal-fact-sheet.pdf

Andrew Wakefield:
http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2010/04/10/wakefield-interview.aspx

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew_Wakefield

Untuk memilih bagi pihak org lain amatlah susah.... sbb org tu lah yg akan menanggung akibat dari pilihan kita tu.... 

Ramai yg mengutuk group fb OHUB, tapi sebenarnye group tu banyak mengajar saya untuk tak jadi ibu yg jahil.... I join the group because been invite from someone because i ask her about vaccination. Pada mulanya, saya skeptikal. But THEY are the one who educate me... Who make me change to be a better mom.

It's up to you to choose, but for those mommy that plan to continue vaccination for their child like me (at the moment, until i convince otherwise and my stand at the moment is 50-50), please please please educate yourself... 

Ambil tau tentang vaksin yg nak cucuk tu, tentang penyakitnya, tentang adverse effect nye, dan bagaimana nak buat jika terjadi. 

Don't be an ignorant mother yg dtg serah anak untuk dicucuk sampaikan cucuk untuk apa pun tak tahu.